A monthly membership of self-nurturance for Mothers.
Hello Mother,
It brings me immense pleasure to have created this for you. For us.
I want you to know that your pain AND potential, are not invisible to me. I see how much you care and how hard you try. I know you are the kind of Mother who moves mountains for her babies.
The kind of Mother to whom my daughters matter.
The kind of Mother who sends her children out into the day, well-fed, well-oiled, well-hydrated and well-adjusted. You have nourishment and nature’s remedies stocked and ready to cater to their every need. You are mindful of the language you use in conversations with and around them, so that they feel secure and safe. Your priority is always making their presence feel welcome, so that their bodily belief is belonging. All the while, advocating for the preservation of their innocence, so that their life-force remains free from interference.
You are the caretaker of their wellbeing, the guardian of their autonomy…
But what about you?
If you pause, put all of that down and listen within, you’d hear the longing of your own embrace. Your own undivided attention. That’s why you’re here.
To experience and embody what it means to be willingly devoted by default, to yourself.
This is Mothering Me.
Being the Mother you desire to be for your children, by being it for yourself first.
Your greatest gift and contribution.
Our children are attuned to us, imitating us, energetically tethered to our being.
Whilst we have a miraculous capacity to hold it all, an outdated, trauma-informed culture has many Mothers still dried up and burnt out, underneath the surface. A faded spirit.
Parenting in a modern world of proving, we are often distracted by convincing justifications to avoid our most important work in such a time as this.
We subconsciously operate as if our job is to teach our children, but at our core we know they are here to teach us.
Our actual job is addressing everything that hijacks our nervous system so that we are able to remain present long enough to receive their innate wisdom. Which for the most part is them telling us:
“return to all the places you’ve abandoned yourself with the love you so freely give to me mummy and I’ll meet you there.”
We’ve reached this point in our evolution as Mothers, because survival mode has had a stranglehold on the hearts of our maternal lineage for too long, compounded by a lack of support feeling under-resourced.
Thus causing a generational baseline of disregulated nervous systems and dormant wombs. Which are inextricably linked.
You’ve found yourself here because you sense this standard of Mothering is not acceptable anymore. The truth of your children’s needs, which are mirroring your needs, are commanding your attention, to make the change now.
To re-orient your experience in relationship with self.
This is for the Mothers on the frontlines right now. What a tragedy it would be to come out the other side of this, medically free but emotionally frazzled. To have been fooled by martyrdom that masquerades as duty. Again.
More and more you find yourself questioning how free you really are, if you feel chained to the cause?
How do your children experience you not as a leader or an activist, but as their Daddy’s lover, a friend to others?
It’s time to be with your advocacy, differently.
Because the revolution you are raising in your arms, will never know true sovereignty, if you are still self-sacrificing for the greater good.
It’s time to reframe our right use of energy.
To take pleasure in Motherhood as a nurturing experience, by removing anything that is between us and enjoying our children, as our contribution to the cause.
Intuitively, you know you are only able to be emotionally available to them, to the degree to which you’ve cradled the child within.
Instinctively, you know you are only able to hold space for your free-spirited babies in the fullness of feelings and wild nature, to the degree to which you have lovingly reconciled every aspect of yourself.
This level of self-honesty will require you to leave behind things you are good at and even things you love.
So that the energetics of self-nurturance, usher in a WHOLE new world.
A world free from just surviving, scarcity and setting ourselves on fire to keep others warm.
Where heart-centred expression is the standard of communicating and spirit-led living as the way of being.
Where unified resourcefulness and co-op care will be remembered as “a sign of these times.”
Where family unit dynamics and culture, are built on systems that nurture, honouring the needs of all within your household.
Where we know ourselves, so that our children may experience us in full trust of our ability to know them, see them, hold them.
This is the healing essence of a Mother’s medicine, transmuting from our activated wombs, transforming humanity.
Leaving a legacy of imprints such as:
“I am open and loving to others, while staying with myself.”
“I can stand what I see.”
“I trust in my capability, my creativity, my own unhurried timeline.”
“I am safe to belong here.”
“I am this loved by life.”
“Being at peace and feeling free, is my true nature.”
This is Mothering Me.
Her energy emanates warmth and enriches every life she touches, through you.
Welcome Home.
I am granddaughter to Tamalii Moors and Ann Caldwell, daughter to Michelle Moors and Mother of Dylan Rose and Tommy Rose Nupier.
The Journey
Each month we’ll explore and embody one energy/frequency/theme that you will actualise and integrate through your human experience. We do this intuitively and purposefully to support you. This serves as the connective tissue that provide structure within the body of work that is Mothering Me.
The how that will support you to come into full embodiment with spaciousness and consistency weaved throughout.
The Channel
Where you will be met with loving relief and reminders that don’t feel like you are being shouted at or stuffed with content.
Unhurried and calming influence on your nervous system. Like a soothing hymn that plays in the background of your life.
No expectation to keep up or rush. Here energetically holding you, whenever you feel called to tap in for support. Members only musings.
So much more than surface level self-care.
The Community
A chat group without the noise. Where we hold ourselves and each other to a higher standard of communicating. An ecosystem of reciprocity. A village with the purpose to nourish and circulate resources of support by stewarding monthly pledges/donations. Think - a paid for babysitter for the day so you can rest, wholesome meals for the week, a house cleaner, an energy clearing session, homebirth care providers. A place you look forward to being in and enjoy making your energy available for. Where you feel deeply seen and worthy of belonging without needing to betray or martyr yourself as a prerequisite.
The purpose of community is proximity, you are the divine, healed and whole, company you keep.
The alchemy of us.
I am a nurtured being in sacred union with life, feeling safe to let love in.
I acknowledge the Original Sovereigns of the land I call home, the land I raise my daughters on, the land I create, prosper and support this community from. I honour First Nations Mothers, Elders and children. I hold their connection to culture, ancient wisdom and caretaking of our Earth, in the highest regard with the deepest respect.